Jesus choosing a wife for a husband

Chosen by God – Kingdom Spouse

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Dream: Dreaming of many princesses competing for a prince. I remember not feeling good enough. Many pretty girls were there. I had to come up with a good ending, because we were going to have to present ourselves in some way like competing for him. Many princesses were chosen in the past that were doing fundraisers or part of a good cause, but that is their heart and all are different. It shouldn’t be any different now. I saw the prince go to the front and he had dark hair. He was on the mic and asked if anyone wants to go next. I wanted to be last so I stood there. It felt like everyone blocking me now was moving out of my way. He looked directly at me and paused. My son somehow jumped in to answer the question like yes we can help. He was just asking for us to help with a costume or something. I remember it was me next again but some girl was going ahead of me. She asked me to hold something and I dropped it. It felt like everyone else’s plans or place in line was being sabotaged supernaturally just for me to be chosen next. I remember driving thinking, “Wow, would God really want me to marry a prince?” At one point I had to leave the competition because my dad became sick, but I knew I was going to be chosen next.

Dream: Another dream I was dreaming of all these women looking for men and they ended up with the wrong men. Some younger and some older. They weren’t happy, because it was their choice.

Heard in the spirit “Exceedingly abundantly”

I can’t tell you how many times over the years God has spoken to me about a Kingdom spouse or marriage. Many people get impatient waiting on God for a spouse. If you place the decision in God’s hand to choose your spouse, then it’s not only wise, but God takes notice and plans/prepares his “BEST” for you so he keeps revealing. We have a choice to choose, but if we do the result will be our fleshly decisions vs by the spirit of God. This is why so many divorces or unhappy marriages. God is not the true center and was not the father who helped make the decision. Doesn’t it make sense to be in God’s will for any decision as big as a spouse, then he would need to be involved? God chooses by the heart, not the image. When God chooses you, it’s because of your heart and nothing you do or no perfect appearance/act can change that. He is able to give more then you can ask or do yourself and gives “exceedingly abundantly” as he spoke in the spirit to me also…Many more scriptures...See below.

These two visions below were directly after the dream and are about letting God lead you to the right one vs the one your holding onto as a compromise.

Vision: Saw a vision after of Jesus smiling in right scene and to the left was me. He then put his hand out for me to take his.

Vision: After this saw the word “compromise”

If you are holding on to a counterfeit: God is asking you to take His hand first to allow him to lead now, not hold the past relationship tighter.
He is asking you not to shrink your needs, calling, or timeline to keep someone comfortable.
If something requires you to continually lower your expectations, silence your pain, or wait without clarity, that is where compromise enters and is not his choice. God’s choice will bring clarity.


Vision: Saw Jesus like he was sitting on train moving forward. He sat in seat in front of me…like he’s moving ahead, then before this saw him standing next to wall like waiting. (God moved us to a new place)

Vision: Plane crash front mostly, then instantly got an idea…they need to come up with better front gear like plexiglass or something to protect their heads.

Vision: Man breaking in home and was soon to be husband

Dream: It first was about my job and Saw something ab my job letting someone else go so I was worried. Then something ab me having a hard time with change and my son said that today ab himself. (We have since moved and this came true also.)

Dream: Dream of seeing a little girl on side of road and then I saw an animal come to help and I knew instantly guardian angel. Then I saw an animal man who had a nice look but I didn’t trust him so I put my car in reverse and went to pick up the girl before he did. I later found out that man was good bc God showed me his intentions were good and he belonged to him.

Vision: Vision of ambulance with lights on going around traffic

Vision: Vision of a cross

Vision: Saw Jesus a few times as a shadow near me. One time sitting at the feet of my bed like waiting.

Two dreams below of being behind and getting caught back up or moving ahead with God’s plan. This has been a theme of me being behind and getting caught up quickly…almost like God saying when he does something it happens “Suddenly,” so you better be ready.

Dream: I dreamed I was visiting someone I liked, but he seemed distant and I couldn’t find him. My sister in this dream was dating a narcissistic man and I tried to warn her, but she finally figured it out for herself. My mom said we have to leave at 12:35 and we were running late, so my mom and me started off together and sisters after me. Then somehow my mom was way ahead and sisters were catching up and passed me. I somehow had a baby I had to run with which was slowing me down and my sisters were trying to wait, but wanted to catch up with my mom. I thought I saw my mom on the sidewalk not too far when I started to run. I asked them to tell my mom to wait for me.

Dream: I dreamed I was going on vacation with my sisters and family. I was in a house that was a mess and trying to pack up stuff. There was a couple other ppl that were church ppl from past. We were walking and I somehow was now driving a yellow bus. At one point there was a carnival and ppl were trying to trap ppl in this sexual device, but some ppl with us got them out of it. At first I was following them and with them, but then fell asleep and realized they were ahead of me and I was back at the same house again. I realized I forgot some stuff too so was packing quickly and leaving. I got all my stuff and got in the bus and was worried I wouldn’t catch up.

Scriptures showing proof it’s part of God’s plan and desire to choose our spouse:

1️⃣ God Chooses / Ordains a Spouse

Proverbs 19:14 (KJV)

House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD.

➡️ This verse plainly says a wise spouse comes from God, not just human effort.


Genesis 24:7 (KJV)

The LORD God of heaven… he shall send his angel before thee, and thou shalt take a wife unto my son from thence.

➡️ Abraham believed God Himself would guide the choice of Isaac’s wife.


Genesis 24:27 (KJV)

I being in the way, the LORD led me…

➡️ Direct testimony that God actively led the servant to the correct woman (Rebekah).


2️⃣ God Guides the Path to the Right Person

Psalm 37:23 (KJV)

The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD…

➡️ Marriage is one of the biggest “steps” of life—Scripture says God orders them.


Proverbs 3:5–6 (KJV)

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart… and he shall direct thy paths.

➡️ “Paths” includes relationships and marriage direction.


Isaiah 48:17 (KJV)

I am the LORD thy God which teacheth thee to profit, which leadeth thee by the way that thou shouldest go.


3️⃣ God Joins a Man and Woman Together

Matthew 19:6 (KJV)

What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

➡️ Jesus Himself says marriage is something God does, not just people.


Mark 10:9 (KJV)

What therefore God hath joined together…

➡️ Repeated for emphasis — marriage is a divine joining.


4️⃣ God Plans Relationships Beforehand

Jeremiah 29:11 (KJV)

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD…

➡️ God’s plans include your future, family, and covenant relationships.


Ecclesiastes 3:1 (KJV)

To every thing there is a season…

➡️ Marriage timing is part of God’s appointed seasons.


5️⃣ God Warns Against Choosing Outside His Will

Judges 14:3 (KJV)

Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren…?

➡️ Shows the danger of choosing without seeking God, even when attraction is strong.


2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV)

Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…

➡️ God sets spiritual boundaries for marriage choices.


6️⃣ Prayer + God’s Will in Marriage

Philippians 4:6–7 (KJV)

In every thing by prayer… let your requests be made known unto God.

➡️ Marriage decisions are included in “everything.”


Psalm 127:1 (KJV)

Except the LORD build the house, they labour in vain that build it…

➡️ A marriage (household) built without God struggles.