Watch the video for more clarity, but here is the message summed up below:
Revelation For Strong Men: How can I make her submit to me?
I was given a gift to see patterns especially for kingdom growth and relationships and this is a pattern I keep seeing among men who don’t understand submission God’s way.
One key with women is consistency. Women feel most loved/safe with consistency.
Show up, be patient, kind or a man of your word consistently – the best you can for her needs.
Remember your the leader for a reason and only Christ is the head. To lead like Christ and not to control what only God can control. It may not happen right away if there is brokenness between you both, but give it time to work.
Trust takes time. For a flower to grow out of darkness, takes time, caring (watering) and sunlight (positive warm love). It’s consistent watering and sunlight for it to grow into a beautiful flower for you. The flower (woman) will grow with what gives it the most consistent care and warmth. This is what Christ does for us.
Men submit too: “Submit to one another”…”love one another”…and “Serve One Another” the bible says.
The more she see’s you show up with her needs and God see’s you doing it his way, the more she can relax and feels safe to trust and submit to that kind of leader. The more God works.
Be there to listen to her with an open kind ear like Christ leans down to hear us, don’t react to her emotions. They will calm down the more you practice kindness, caring and compassion for her.
Be more like Christ in how he is to you…this is how he said to love your wife…giving up yourself like Christ gave himself up for the church. Learn to let go of control, pride and humble yourself. Ask God for help. Do not be harsh with her, but love her like he does. Your prayers will not be hindered this way.
You want her to feel safe and protected in all ways and that is what she was made to submit too. That is a leader like Christ. She feels safe with him and God put the desire in all women’s hearts to feel safe with a man seeking to be like him. We are not meant to be unequally yoked, so she will desire a man not perfect, but always learning and growing to be like Christ.
Don’t bible bash her, her relationship is with Christ alone, but instead lead her with gentleness like Christ does for her. Don’t give up…just try it God’s way this time.
Strong men…God consistently shows me your struggles with women and submission. I also was given a gift to see patterns for kingdom growth to bring you more peace or clarity. Godly women are ready to submit, but he designed her to submit his way. Guys stay in your masculine, but one key is to do it with consistency and kindness. Harshness and control is of the world…not of God. Be a man of your word consistently – the best you can. No one is perfect ofc…forgive and forget…just do your best and God will do the rest…time is too short not to love his way.
SINGLE: Please remember always if you are single to pray if this is the one for you first for confirmation.
MARRIED: For the men already married, please remember God has already given his leaders steps to follow and she will easily submit if these steps are followed out.
NOTE: I want to be clear that man that taught me that lesson I spoke about in the video to tame my emotions was not the one, but he still taught me a valuable lesson I never learned from other men before. Sometimes God brings ppl into our lives to teach us to grow. Learn from them to prepare for the one he brings. Love you all and God bless.
Remember this very important lesson: If you surrender it to God, he takes over. True strong leaders know who made them strong and they get their strength from God and his ways.
I pray this message gives you clarity and hope. May peace be in your marriage and relationships ❤︎